Meet The Essence

As a Liberation/Trauma Coach, I have a personal dedication to liberation for myself and those with a shared connection. It is my core belief, that complete honesty, full transparency, wholehearted truth, paired with loving discourse, will foster an environment of trust that will encourage the genuine vulnerability necessary to reach the pinnacle of self actualization

the story behind the passion…

I am a survivor of several different kinds of abuse ranging from emotional, mental, physical, psychological, spiritual, and sexual abuse. 

I was raised in a very turbulent household by an emotionally unavailable mother who displayed obvious signs of depression and anxiety, and a very abusive father who would often lash out at those of us around him in fits of violence and rage.  

I was secretly molested sexually throughout my childhood by family friends and unsuspected family members. 

I learned at a very young age that speaking up when there was a problem just got you in a worse situation so I turned my cries inside. I began creating imaginary worlds inside my head to escape my true reality.

My teenage years didn’t serve as a way out either. As a result of the sexual abuse I suffered as an adolescent, I began having sex willingly at the age of twelve. 

I became rebellious when I felt that I couldn’t seek any relief at home. I began being disrespectful to my mother whom I was growing to resent more and more for her silence and seemingly disinterest in what was happening to me.

It wasn’t shortly after that I had my own experiences with domestic violence. At the age of thirteen, I was continuously beaten and set up to be raped by a boyfriend.

I experienced some of the most horrific trauma during my teenage years. I was kidnapped at gunpoint, involved in a robbery, spent some time in juvenile detention, was almost killed twice, and underwent plastic surgery to repair damage to my face as a result of being punched so hard that my cheek split open.

You would think that the trauma would’ve subsided when I reached adulthood but no it only got seemingly worse.  

The effects of the extreme trauma I lived over the course of my whole life have thrown me into my life’s purpose.

It is my pleasure to help you on your journey to liberating yourself and living the life you so deserve.